BETTY'S BLOG...

Every teenager wants to explore his/her world at every given opportunity and experience things themselves. being protective sounds great but keeping them caged and being over protective is not a good one. You really can't force things on them. once their mind is set on something, they are determined to go the extra mile regardless of what you do.  Be Strict is the way of most of our parents, That's how they were brought up. We hardly bring ourselves to their level but remember that times have changed... Have you tried the other way, which is,   -BE THEIR FRIEND. sometimes, forget that you are their parent and build a friendship kind of relationship. Have a ❤️ to ❤️ talk with him or her at intervals.  - Encourage them to bring their friends home.know the friends your children keep... -Make your home conducive for them...Don't always push them away.. They should be happy and feel relaxed to be home....  This is the story of a 15 year old girl. The parents bought her a ...

Light up the season Let more love abound. Let's have more genuine friends than enemies. While you sympathize with others, also show empathy Even when their attitude towards you says otherwise, that should not define you. It should not change what makes you Unique, leave an unforgettable impact on people's mind such that in your absence they'll wish for you. Overcome people's bad deeds with good deeds. Love covers multitude of sin. Have more or high expectations for yourself and less expectations from others to avoid hurts and ❤️ break. How do you start your day? with negative words? Try making positive declarations into your life every morning and every other day. Some day those words will prevail 

 Do you sometimes feel depressed and lonely. Do you feel like no one truly loves and cares about you. do you sometimes feel like your world is crumbling down. Then it is time to go out there and be in the company of friends or people who can cheer you up. alot of people were born alone except for twins, triplets etc. even at that, it's not automatic to be happy.  Make it a duty to find joy even when situations are not smiling at you. Even when you have no genuine reason to be happy. Even when you try and DNT seem to get it right, just keep trying and in so doing you will be learning alot as well.  Choose to be happy Make yourself happy

 Parents, it's not every and anything your child wants, he or she should get.  Deprive them certain comfort and demands intentionally...it should be a deliberate act and not necessarily because u really can't afford it..Teach them to be content with what you've given them and never look else where...Do not say "if I don't give it to him or her, she'll cry. Oh no I dnt want to see him cry." Do not say " if I dnt give in to my teens demand, he will leave home for days". Dnt encourage their non-challant attitude. Bend them from little otherwise when they are grown to teens, they become unbendable. Do not say " oh he's or she's only a child.Do the talking and shouting now so that you can have rest of mind tomorrow... Don't go into self pity. Don't get offended when people genuinely correct your child. Do not support their wrong doing regardless of who's involved.

 👗 the way u want men to see you. Dress the way u want to be addressed..Don't give a wrong impression of yourself..No decent man will look for a half naked lady for a wife. Even men who are players still look for decent girls to marry.. Decency comes from the ❤️. Because you are decent doesn't mean you are naive. Because you are decent doesn't mean u don't know the in thing. Being decent doesn't mean you don't know how to enjoy life to the fullest. Many young girls have tolled the wrong way because of life circumstances and challenges but grace found them...some were never won back to life...May God's love never leave you. You can dress decently and still be a sexy mama. Oh yes.. masking from head to toe is not decency DNT get it twisted. Be decent in your dress code, makeover and speech. You can be decent and yet know the rules that guide the game. Because you are decent doesn't mean u should allow men intimidate you and rub you off your joy. Don't...

 This morning piece is centered on cleanliness... Cleanliness they say is next to godliness.. I see alot of 👩‍🦰 looking beautiful outside and well dressed but having dirty underwears. If you are privileged to visit their abode, u will nauseate. Ladies change ur undies from time to time. including your tooth brush... young boys derive joy showcasing their dirty boxers and you want that beautiful sister to look your way..think twice..I am a big boy is not by saggy 👖 Some girls smell like hell like u'll wonder if the sanitary products were mistaken....get yourself good deodorant and wear nice perfumes...Take ur bath twice a day and possibly thrice on your period...use breathable lingerie. The body needs air... 💃 Women who feel because they have birthed many children 👩‍👩‍👧‍👦so they should not care for their bodies and appearance..my darlings, this is the time to show case your talent..let ur husband know that you are still on point...DNT turn yourself to Geepee. Excersise your ...

 SIGNS to look out for  Parents be patient, open minded and friends with your children. when you notice your child is found of a man/woman who's always buying them things, pls ask questions. DNT just assume all is well. Abusers entice children with gifts. Though there are still good people around.. beware When your teenage boy/girl starts keeping away( withdrawing) from your friends, neighbors, family relative or even their colleagues.Especially if they are usually free having same person around.something is wrong  You that will travel and invite your friends son or an adult male to stay with your children till you return home. I pray you DNT regret it tomorrow. I have heard and seen cases like this. be careful. when kids complain of someone to you, pls hear them out. listen to them even if u DNT believe what they tell u. DNT trust outsiders more than you trust your family. When your children know that they can trust you as their parents, there's nothing they cannot tell...