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Should My Child Get All He/She Asks For


 Parents, it's not every and anything your child wants, he or she should get.  Deprive them certain comfort and demands intentionally...it should be a deliberate act and not necessarily because u really can't afford it..Teach them to be content with what you've given them and never look else where...Do not say "if I don't give it to him or her, she'll cry. Oh no I dnt want to see him cry." Do not say " if I dnt give in to my teens demand, he will leave home for days". Dnt encourage their non-challant attitude. Bend them from little otherwise when they are grown to teens, they become unbendable. Do not say " oh he's or she's only a child.Do the talking and shouting now so that you can have rest of mind tomorrow... Don't go into self pity. Don't get offended when people genuinely correct your child. Do not support their wrong doing regardless of who's involved.

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