BETTY'S BLOG...

 we have heard this numerous times that you should keep "Third Party" away from your marriage. but I now ask my self,  outside the man and the wife, every other person is a third party and if they are kept away, how then can that marriage survive.  No man is an island entire of it's own self.keep your friends close and your enemies even closer. All third parties in marriage are very essential as they play positive or negative roles..Who are third parties: FRIENDS, SIBLINGS, EXTENDED FAMILY MEMBERS, IN-LAWS, CHILDREN, WORK COLLEAGUES, BUSINESS CLIENTS, COURSE MATES, PARENTS, RELIGIOUS LEADERS etc just remember that whatever measure of kindness or wickedness u give, u'll get in return inevitable consequences. Remember that whatever you DNT allow in your home will not gain entrance. Also remember that the 🦎 lizard can only enter the house if there's a crack on the wall  or an  opening for easy access..

 "common hygiene is every individuals right pls" I totally agree. and if those were her worries, and she feels she's not a fixer and can't try , then it's better to quit.  People's priority, choice and desire differs, same as tolerance level. She really deserves to be happy and if his bad toilet hygiene is her worst night mere, quitting is advised before she thinks of doing the unthinkable. Now to the man, fixing you up, is really a long term project. and would require all the patient in the world. really sometimes, it becomes unbearable. but for the sake of love and humanity it's advised to work on this kind of attitude else how would he cope with friends, family and colleagues at work. what kind of example will he set for the unborn. One can get irritated and even fall sick. The site is usually disgusting.   There are a few questions to be considered. Is this act intentional?  Is it a habit he grew with?  What was his upbringing like? During the period...

 

 Decent men/women will give you wonderful gifts unconditionally. No strings attached. But then your MIND must be prepared for RETURNS. Whatever you are not ready for, from the very beginning, do not accept. Have it at the back of your mind that because he or she gives you gifts and money is not automatic ticket to sex u without your permission.. Because you receive money and other gift doesn't mean u OWE him or her. and they do not OWN you.oh yes do not let anyone play on your intelligence. Don't be so weak and naive as not be able to stand and speak up for yourself.. follow your instincts. when you sense it's a TRAP, pls RETREAT. but then you can decide to proceed and enjoy the fun while it last. and be prepared to face the consequences. The feeling of REGRET is what you wouldn't want to deal with.trust me it can be worse than poison.  THinK ThRouG h.

 Where you meet your spouse sometimes can raise ill feelings especially when your partner has reasons to think u might be cheating on him or her... Imagine meeting you spouse in a club house, a bar or a brothel. This person will cherish you no doubt and has decided to leave with you regardless but influence from friends even family might want to change the love and trust u have built over the years.  imagine having a bad influence for a friend. how do u think your spouse will see you. the bad influence around you will someday remind him or her where you both started from. fear and mistrust will set in, hate speeches and abuse. Note:  Everyone can not possibly meet their partners in decent places.this is a fact that must be established. know that People take different path to life as such should be responsible for their actions. If care is not taken and one is not careful, you will loose everything you've ever worked hard to build..So anything you know that will implicate ...

Every teenager wants to explore his/her world at every given opportunity and experience things themselves. being protective sounds great but keeping them caged and being over protective is not a good one. You really can't force things on them. once their mind is set on something, they are determined to go the extra mile regardless of what you do.  Be Strict is the way of most of our parents, That's how they were brought up. We hardly bring ourselves to their level but remember that times have changed... Have you tried the other way, which is,   -BE THEIR FRIEND. sometimes, forget that you are their parent and build a friendship kind of relationship. Have a ❤️ to ❤️ talk with him or her at intervals.  - Encourage them to bring their friends home.know the friends your children keep... -Make your home conducive for them...Don't always push them away.. They should be happy and feel relaxed to be home....  This is the story of a 15 year old girl. The parents bought her a ...

Light up the season Let more love abound. Let's have more genuine friends than enemies. While you sympathize with others, also show empathy Even when their attitude towards you says otherwise, that should not define you. It should not change what makes you Unique, leave an unforgettable impact on people's mind such that in your absence they'll wish for you. Overcome people's bad deeds with good deeds. Love covers multitude of sin. Have more or high expectations for yourself and less expectations from others to avoid hurts and ❤️ break. How do you start your day? with negative words? Try making positive declarations into your life every morning and every other day. Some day those words will prevail