Bad Toilet hygiene

 "common hygiene is every individuals right pls"

I totally agree. and if those were her worries, and she feels she's not a fixer and can't try , then it's better to quit. 

People's priority, choice and desire differs, same as tolerance level. She really deserves to be happy and if his bad toilet hygiene is her worst night mere, quitting is advised before she thinks of doing the unthinkable.

Now to the man, fixing you up, is really a long term project. and would require all the patient in the world. really sometimes, it becomes unbearable. but for the sake of love and humanity it's advised to work on this kind of attitude else how would he cope with friends, family and colleagues at work. what kind of example will he set for the unborn. One can get irritated and even fall sick. The site is usually disgusting. 

 There are a few questions to be considered.

Is this act intentional? 

Is it a habit he grew with? 

What was his upbringing like?

During the period of courting, did you both talk about it? 

Were there signs that he could change and was he willing to but finding it difficult?

When he's alone, is he his old self? etc

So, it might not have been the best of decision. atleast she should have tried and failed than not try at all. regardless. she made a decision she feels is best for her. and we all should respect that.  For someone to have bad toilet hygiene, it also means the person lacks good personal hygiene