BETTY'S BLOG...

 I have realized that to fulfill once purpose and meet up expectations, by divine forces, we have been placed in a circle of people, friends, colleagues and family members of same mindset.... It is not about the physical outlook that makes one intelligent but intelligence and character gives and takes you to better opportunities. Commitment and focus.  Really one should do away with people and things that do not have and add value to their existence. Even as one who is on a journey, what impact, good name, legacy, good will, are we depositing in people. How do you touch lives. That which you can do today, do not leave it for tomorrow. Every connection is business not just to celebrate mediocrity..A healthy competition of faith and success..let your connection be impactful all around

 we have heard this numerous times that you should keep "Third Party" away from your marriage. but I now ask my self,  outside the man and the wife, every other person is a third party and if they are kept away, how then can that marriage survive.  No man is an island entire of it's own self.keep your friends close and your enemies even closer. All third parties in marriage are very essential as they play positive or negative roles..Who are third parties: FRIENDS, SIBLINGS, EXTENDED FAMILY MEMBERS, IN-LAWS, CHILDREN, WORK COLLEAGUES, BUSINESS CLIENTS, COURSE MATES, PARENTS, RELIGIOUS LEADERS etc just remember that whatever measure of kindness or wickedness u give, u'll get in return inevitable consequences. Remember that whatever you DNT allow in your home will not gain entrance. Also remember that the 🦎 lizard can only enter the house if there's a crack on the wall  or an  opening for easy access..

 "common hygiene is every individuals right pls" I totally agree. and if those were her worries, and she feels she's not a fixer and can't try , then it's better to quit.  People's priority, choice and desire differs, same as tolerance level. She really deserves to be happy and if his bad toilet hygiene is her worst night mere, quitting is advised before she thinks of doing the unthinkable. Now to the man, fixing you up, is really a long term project. and would require all the patient in the world. really sometimes, it becomes unbearable. but for the sake of love and humanity it's advised to work on this kind of attitude else how would he cope with friends, family and colleagues at work. what kind of example will he set for the unborn. One can get irritated and even fall sick. The site is usually disgusting.   There are a few questions to be considered. Is this act intentional?  Is it a habit he grew with?  What was his upbringing like? During the period...

 

 Decent men/women will give you wonderful gifts unconditionally. No strings attached. But then your MIND must be prepared for RETURNS. Whatever you are not ready for, from the very beginning, do not accept. Have it at the back of your mind that because he or she gives you gifts and money is not automatic ticket to sex u without your permission.. Because you receive money and other gift doesn't mean u OWE him or her. and they do not OWN you.oh yes do not let anyone play on your intelligence. Don't be so weak and naive as not be able to stand and speak up for yourself.. follow your instincts. when you sense it's a TRAP, pls RETREAT. but then you can decide to proceed and enjoy the fun while it last. and be prepared to face the consequences. The feeling of REGRET is what you wouldn't want to deal with.trust me it can be worse than poison.  THinK ThRouG h.

 Where you meet your spouse sometimes can raise ill feelings especially when your partner has reasons to think u might be cheating on him or her... Imagine meeting you spouse in a club house, a bar or a brothel. This person will cherish you no doubt and has decided to leave with you regardless but influence from friends even family might want to change the love and trust u have built over the years.  imagine having a bad influence for a friend. how do u think your spouse will see you. the bad influence around you will someday remind him or her where you both started from. fear and mistrust will set in, hate speeches and abuse. Note:  Everyone can not possibly meet their partners in decent places.this is a fact that must be established. know that People take different path to life as such should be responsible for their actions. If care is not taken and one is not careful, you will loose everything you've ever worked hard to build..So anything you know that will implicate ...