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Don't Fear But Communicate

 Why do teens look at their parents as though they never passed through teen's stage. They forget that before parents become parents, they didn't just grow up but were taught and guided. This young girl lives with a relative of hers. and this her aunt has a little baby of Les than a year.  One faithful day, she took the baby to her aunt's shop. As the baby slept, she left the baby and went out.  She came back hours later not to find the baby. 

Now this baby woke up from sleep and cried badly. It took the intervention of neighbors to rescue the child. When this young girl returned, she looked at two elderly woman caring for her aunt's baby and said without being asked. "My aunty sent me to collect a customer's cloth but when I got there I didn't meet her"...She was now asked "Your customer's place or your boyfriend's house" without hesitating she quickly said no ooo. After few minutes, the elderly women handed the baby back to the young girl. days past, weeks past, months past.

On a faithful evening, I went on an errand to one of those shops belonging to one of those elderly women. A young boy walked in the shop, stood in my front and was complaining "why is she( that woman ) looking at me like that. Ah ah can't I see my girlfriend again?.  Immediately I saw this same young girl. She walked into the same shop. stood with the boy and stylishly collected money from her boyfriend..After which they both left.

This left me thinking. Even if you want to see your boyfriend or vis-a-vis, atleast show your aunty some respect. If it's possible, take( your boyfriend or girlfriend) to your parent. Let them know the circle you are moving with. and with that they can guide you properly. 

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